The Gita talks about letting go of all desires, how is that possible unless one becomes a brahmachari and lives an impoverished life? I mean what's wrong with falling in love with someone and caring for someone? why does one have to give up on love in order to give him or herself fully to Krishna? I have tried and I cannot do it, it seems inhuman. If I wasn't inlove i'd be unhappy, depressed and miserable.I'd have nothing to look forward to each day, it's love that keeps me healthy and alive.Afterall doesn't Krisha want us to be happy, isn't that the ultimate goal?